Illeana’s grandmother was the former Helen Gahagan, who had the (literally) deathless title role in “She” (1935) opposite Randolph Scott — he incidentally was casually outed over the weekend by the L.A. Times much to the horror of conservative movie blogger John “Dirty Harry” Nolte. They were beaten to the punch, incidentally, 12 years ago by Lawrence Van Gelder of NY Times, who did the honors in a review of “The Silver Screen: Color Me Lavender,” which devotes much screen time to deconstructing Scott’s sexually ambiguous screen persona. Helen Gahagan Douglas, also an opera star who became a California congresswoman, was dubbed “The Pink Lady” by the ethics-challenged future president who defeated her when she ran for re-election. Gahagan Douglas’ nickname for him stuck more permanently: “Tricky DIck.” When we spoke a few weeks ago, Ileana, a member of the academy, was understandably looking forward to watching “Frost/Nixon,” starring grandma’s old nemesis.