ABC’s “The Bachelor” continues to defy expectations (including mine) in the numbers department, with Monday’s two-hour “The Women Tell All” episode averaging 11 million viewers (8-10 p.m.). That’s up 4.3 million from last year’s “WTA” episode and up 61 percent in adults 18-49 (and was the most-watched “WTA” “Bachelor” episode over five years). “The Bachelor” finale airs Monday.