The NYPD cop accused of targeting her estranged husband and her boyfriend’s teenage daughter in a grisly murder-for-hire plot will get to speak to her 5-year-old son on his birthday next month — after she was previously barred from speaking to him, a judge ruled Monday.
During a divorce-court hearing in Nassau County, Judge Jeffrey Goodstein granted Officer Valerie Cincinelli permission to make a supervised call to her son from jail on his Nov. 8 birthday — but they must limit their conversations to the boy’s school, friends and activities.
“I think Ms. Cincinelli is feeling the pain of what her actions caused,” Goodstein said during the hearing — where he also said two handmade cards that Cincinelli constructed for her son could be delivered to the child.
On the cards, the Oceanside mom wishes a happy birthday and happy Halloween to the son, who she shares with Isaiah Carvalho — the man she allegedly arranged a hit on.
In one of the cards she wrote the message: “Mommy loves and misses you so much. I hope I can get home to you soon.”
“She has always been a loving mother to her child,” Cincinelli’s lawyer, James Kousouros, told the judge.
Carvalho’s lawyer Erika Sakol initially objected to the message on the cards, arguing that it could give the child the illusion of a possible reunion.
“If she’s convicted, who knows when he’ll see her next,” Sakol said.
The boy found the cards to be “really loving,” his lawyer Hani Moskowitz said.
“I think he deserves to be made aware that his mother really cares about him,” the attorney said.
Over the summer, Cincinelli was barred indefinitely from calling her son from the New York City lockup where she is being held, because she violated the court’s conference-calling rules.
“She will only speak of her child’s life. She needs to hear his voice,” Kousouros said during the Monday hearing.
As Cincinelli was escorted out of the courtroom, she whispered “thank you,” to Moskowitz.
Cincinelli was arrested back in May for allegedly giving her boyfriend John DiRubba $7,000 to arrange hits on Carvalho and DiRubba’s own 15-year-old daughter amid a bitter divorce with Carvalho.
Her next matrimonial court hearing is set for Nov. 25.